Why I love Maggie, part 2758
Maggie called and asked if I could come up with some extra cash. In the past, I would have gotten a little huffy, asked her what for, made her provide reasons, etc. Really stupid power-play reaction on my part. This time, though, I said "hey, don't worry about telling me why, just tell me the amount, and I'll tell you if we have it to front."
She gives me the figure, I say "okay." All ends super-peacefully.
She calls me a half-hour later and adds 50% to the figure. I say "But... but... I was just patting myself on the back for being so un-dickish about money for a change!"
And she said:
Love to all. Even you, the angry ex-junkie who thinks we're out to get her.
She gives me the figure, I say "okay." All ends super-peacefully.
She calls me a half-hour later and adds 50% to the figure. I say "But... but... I was just patting myself on the back for being so un-dickish about money for a change!"
And she said:
You know me, I have to push the envelope until you're angry, so that I feel successful.Now THAT is self-awareness.
Love to all. Even you, the angry ex-junkie who thinks we're out to get her.

2 Comments:
Why is it if I did that to my husband I doubt he would consider that a reason to love me?
Maggie's a lucky girl!
I'm confused about the love signs...
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